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What shapes a child’s brain? According to brain science

Last Updated on 16/05/25 0
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The early years of a child’s life are the period of remarkable brain development – that’s no more a secret. But understanding the science of how the brain grows and adapts can empower parents and educators to provide the best support during these formative years.

Here we are presenting the science of kids’ brain development in a very simplified way.

Let’s start with the two key terms.

Neuron: These are brain cells. They transmit information via electrical and chemical signals.
Synapses: The connections between neurons, allowing them to communicate.

A child, by age 2-3 will have twice as many synapses than an adult human brain would have. By age 6, the brain would have achieved almost 90% adult brain size.

So this age is highly important for the overall development of the child. The most important learning during this phase is Languages, motor skills, sensory skills and bonding.

Two important processes happen after that age.

  1. Pruning
  2. Myelination

Both of these start happening post age six but would be slow. A majority of the pruning and myelination happen between age 12 to 20. The teenage years!


Age range Brain activity Key developments Impact
0-6 years Rapid neurone and synapse formation Language, motor skills, bonding Foundation for learning and emotions
6–12 years Slow Synaptic pruning and myelination Logical thinking, literacy, social skills Core academic and social abilities
12–20+ years Pruning, myelination and prefrontal cortex development Identity formation, planning, reasoning Critical thinking and emotional regulation

0-6 years:
Brain activity: Rapid neurone and synapse formation
Key developments: Rapid neurone and synapse formation Language, motor skills, bonding
Impact: Foundation for learning and emotions

6-12 years:
Brain activity: Slow Synaptic pruning and myelination
Key developments: Logical thinking, literacy, social skills
Impact: Core academic and social abilities

12-20+ years
Brain activity: Pruning, myelination and prefrontal cortex development
Key developments: Identity formation, planning, reasoning
Impact: Critical thinking and emotional regulation


Understanding the pruning

As children grow, their brains undergo a process called synaptic pruning, where unused or less active synapses are eliminated. This “use it or lose it” mechanism enhances the efficiency of neural networks, ensuring that frequently used connections are strengthened and less-used or unused connections (synapses) are removed.

synaptic pruning

Image courtesy: Alila Medical Media

Understanding myelination

Brain develops a fatty substance named myelin. The myelin forms a protective sheath (a cover) around axons of the neurones. This process is called myelination.
This process has two benefits.

  1. Protects brain cells.
  2. Improves efficiency.

You can relate this to an electric copper wire insulated with plastic insulation. Neurone axon is the copper wire and myelin is outer insulation.

neurons connection

Image courtesy: James Medison University

The outcome of pruning and myelination

So now we know what myelination and pruning are. As mentioned earlier, it’s use it or lose it. Brain preserves the used synapses and makes them efficient, and will remove which is not much used.

Say you are using your brain for science or music, the brain portion associated with those skills will be preserved and made more efficient. That’s why we see some people being able to adapt some skills even at later stages of life. Most probably they have worked on a related skill during the phase of pruning and myelination, broadly age 6 to 20.

For example

  • A child doing good in chess may better adapt to computer programming later.
  • A child who completes a project using a DIY kit is more likely to finish “task-on-hand” as an adult, because her brain has strengthened the synapse for execution ability.

Pro tip: Why not work on your ability to learn new skills during this age?

Now, What affects pruning and myelination?
Two things:

  1. Stress
  2. Experiences

The impact of stress on brain development

Long term & sustained stresses such as severe family conflicts, parental disputes, sustained bullying or abuse may adversely affect the neurone development, pruning and Myelination processes. Resulting in under developed brain, poor decision making, lack of confidence, fear, too much of aggression and other negative behaviour.

Acute short term stresses such as failing an exam, losing a tournament, falling from bicycle, or getting dropped off a team can help promote resilience and adaptive coping mechanisms when managed appropriately by the kids and supported by adults.
When children are overly shielded from all failure or challenge, the brain may not develop (say preserve and keep efficient associated brain portion) the skills that make a person resilient and decisive.

Impact of experiences on brain development

As short term and moderate stress causing experiences helps a person develop positively, the enriching experiences immensely help brain developing and preserving the synapses during pruning and myelination process.

Beneficial experiences

  • Free play: Unstructured and without instructors.
  • Creative play: Creating and playing with toys, DIY projects, drawing, building, sports, storytelling, quizzes and puzzles, and all sorts of performing and visual arts stimulate various brain regions.
  • Social interaction: Meeting new people, dealing with strangers (in a controlled environment subject to child’s age and surroundings), going to a nearby shop alone, travelling alone etc enhances communication skills and empathy.
  • Exploration: Encouraging curiosity through experiments, project making, nature walk, trekking, role plays, internships, trying with entrepreneurship etc fosters cognitive growth.

One last thing, What harms brain development?

Excessive passive screen time like endless scrolling, binge watching and gaming do not offer any experience, they just offer information. Often, wrong information, misinformation, unworthy information and harmful information. And remember that neuronal development, pruning and myelination is going on between 6 to 20. You want it to go wrong?

Enrich your kids’ brain with experiences and positive stresses. Take care!

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